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See Jane Do: Extraordinary Jane: Fay Ann Lee

Jesse Locks and
Elisa Parker
Special to the Sunday Express

Fay Ann Lee is an everyday woman living in New York City. An actress by trade, Lee found roles for Asian American women few and far between.

Determined to have her voice heard, she wrote a screenplay about self-discovery, acceptance and love through the eyes of an Asian American woman named Grace Tang, a successful Wall Street banker from New York’s Chinatown, who wants more than anything to be part of the elite Upper East Side socialite world.

With no formal training in filmmaking, Lee learned quickly by doing and her debut feature film, “Falling for Grace,” premiered at the 2006 Tribeca Film Festival.

She has since traveled across the U.S. and Canada to promote the film, including a special screening last year at the Nevada Theatre in Nevada City presented by CATS.

In her film and other creative endeavors, Lee is working hard to break the “celluloid ceiling” in Hollywood so women’s voices and stories are heard.

How did you get into filmmaking?

I was an actor first. Right out of college I had some luck and was cast in Miss Saigon on Broadway. I performed in theater groups around the country, but when I returned to New York to settle down, I found there were very few opportunities for Asian American actors.

I didn’t become an actress to take on a series of supporting roles, so I wrote a screenplay. I went to a writing class, developed a screenplay and entered it in competitions.

After I started winning these competitions, I began getting calls from certain producers, some big and some small. A year later nothing had happened, so I started raising the money myself.

What was story that you set out to tell in the film?

To accept oneself for the way you are; it’s about self-esteem. I wanted Grace to go on this journey and

ultimately realize that she is good enough and that in order to validate herself, she realizes the most

important person is herself.

Why is it important for women to get involved in filmmaking?

If you look at the numbers of women in Hollywood, it’s horrible. In 2009 women directed only 7 percent of films, the same number as 20 years ago. There has been no movement. This affects everyone, including how women see themselves, how men see women, how children and the next generation see themselves. No wonder there are so many women suffering from eating disorders, because 93 percent of the time we see an image of a woman, it is from a man’s perspective.

How do you stay positive in light of such dismal numbers?

Sometimes I wake up and ask what am I doing? I’m literally swimming upstream everyday. I could give up or keep fighting. For me there is no choice, I have to make a second film. I’m an American and I want to write and make films for people like me.

You screened this film all across the U.S. in small towns just like those in Nevada County. What did you want to share with these audiences?

I wanted to introduce an Asian American family to other Americans and have them understand that we are not that different; we are all immigrants. When you read a book you don’t see or get a feel for the characters. When you see them on screen you really get who they are. The more you are exposed to different faces, the more familiar they are and the less afraid and more open you become. The media, both print and film, are so powerful in terms of making this country aware of the people who are out there.

What would be your message to women around the world?

That they have to absolutely love and believe in themselves. To go for what ever it is they want, everyone has a different dream and it is never too late to start. If I can do it, anyone can. I’m not extraordinarily talented, but I’m a hard worker and passionate about what I’m doing.

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