Time for the annual holiday debacle. I’m not talking bad Christmas gifts; I’m talking high-conflict separated parents duking it out over when to exchange the kids come Christmas Day. Every year, same old fight with kids caught in the middle. As other kids are dreaming and scheming about their Christmas booty, kids of high-conflict separated parents are embroiled as emissaries taking contentious emotion laden messages back and forth between their parents to sort out exchange time. They are exposed to the toxic animosity and bad mouthing of one parent against the other. These same kids have to reconcile their own …