What kind of community am I living in? Where is the love? My name is Mary Vasquez, a widow and a grandmother, who went to the Bay Area to spend Halloween with my grandchildren and family. I took my grandchildren out trick or treating on Halloween. Afterwards, we lit birthday candles for my sister whose birthday was on Halloween, and who passed away on Oct. 27, 2010, four days before her 61st birthday, of cancer. My garage was egged because I was not home here in Grass Valley. Just because a house isn’t lit up to give out candy, doesn’t …